What is sex? The definition according to the dictionary is sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse. And that is just the basic act of having sex. But what we soulful beings sometimes do not realize is how having sex affects your soul’s energy.
Let’s refresh. Your personal soul is a part of and the overseer of a greater energy field that includes your personal aura, your chakras within your body, your shushumna, nadis, pingala, ida and meridians and your spirit that holds your personality characteristics. It also is connected to chakras above going up to source/Divine through the Galactic cord, and to the earth chakra with the grounding cord. Your soul’s incarnation begins invitro during the first trimester, when your body’s heart starts to beat. This is when your soul begins to enter your body through the heart and merges with your body and creates the energy sectors called chakras. The first chakras to connect is the root chakra, sacral chakra and solar plexus.
Now within the heart chakra there are micro copies of each larger chakra. This is how the energy of the soul remain intact and functions as the template for the chakras as they are formed. However, the copy that descends into your lower regions of your body (your belly) picks up lower vibrational energy throughout your lifetime that may also damage the chakras within your heart, which makes it difficult for your soul within your body to feel safe enough to shine.
So picture as you will, your chakra system, from root to crown through out your body, with a carbon copy in your heart.
Now back to the topic of sex and how sex affects your soul.
When you have sex, the chakras give and receives sexual energy from the other person to you and from you to them. The energy exchange during a sexual encounter is strong. It can be either high vibrational or low vibrational.
We are energetic bodies, and during sexual intercourse, the energy of each partner mixes. Every sex act is an exchange of energy because every sexual act raises or lowers your energy level.
When a man interjects his sexual energy into a woman it passes through her root chakra and cords into her sacral chakra. The woman receives this energy and gives him sexual energy of her own. These cords stay connected to the woman long after the encounter and is reflected within her heart. This is why typically women associate sex with love.
When you think about how strong the energy is from the sacral chakra, as it is evident during pregnancy. There is a unmistakable bond that happens when women give birth. The baby invitro creates attachment cords to her womb(sacral chakra) which in turn is mirrored in her heart chakra. The same connection between womb and heart exists during sex. An attachment cord is created during sex. Think of the energy cord as an arrow with a fish hook at the end. This is the tether. Attached to the tether is an energy cord from the man.
From a man to a woman, the tether embeds itself into the woman’s chakra which in turn sends energy to her heart. If there is love energy attached in this energy arrow, then the heart responds and the sex love energy grows and is invited and encouraged to repeat. However if there is no love included with this arrow, then the heart feels the lower vibrational energy and begins to put up an armour to protect itself and the soul energy that it is. And the sacral micro chakra in the heart chakra area begins to get close itself off from the sacral chakra in the body attached to the womb, and her sexual energy.
Whether the sexual encounter is a part of a loving relationship or not, the exchange still happens. The attached cord affects the root, sacral, solar plex, all the way up to the heart. And because the bond is so strong between the woman’s sacral and heart, she is affected whether the exchange was for pure love, or for just sexual release. Obviously if the exchange was pure soul love, the energy is positive and high vibrational, however if the exchange was not intended for love, the energy is low vibrational.
In a perfect world, a woman wants to invite her beloved man into her gateway, to form a stronger high vibrational loving bond ideally with the heart, head and soul, and the man would be willing and wanting to be invited to form this higher vibrational bond. However this is not a perfect world, and not all everyone who are invited intended to create or preserve this high vibrational energy bond. And when the loving relationship ends, the cords remain, but she may feel deceived by the man… maybe not through conscious thought, but the heart’s mind or soul consciousness is very aware and in dis-stress and eventually dis-ease.
When the sexual encounter is just momentary and casual, the cord still attaches, but since there is no love connection, the arrowhead imbeds itself, but the cord breaks off to a thread and even like our own body, can get so deeply imbedded that we do not even realize that it is there. But like a foreign object it does cause discomfort and pain. And this pain causes scarring from the energy hook in the body sacral chakra, and blockages in the carbon copy in the heart.
Casual sex affects the woman’s chakra system more negatively than a man’s because the man’s cord attachment is outside of his body, and connected to his root. However the hooks and cords within other women eventually send negative vibration to the man’s root chakra and can also negatively affect his sexual energy. It can stop his energy flow from moving throughout his body, making him feel tired and lethargic from all the negative cording that she gave to him, upon his root.
When it comes to a rape, not only is the man not invited,(which leaves scars) but he cords of negative energy goes through her root, into her sacral chakra, and that negativity affects her solar plexus, and heart. And when he is finished, the cord and tether is then ripped right back out by the woman, scarring her sexual energy, her love, and her very being with negative feelings and thoughts.
How to release yourself from unwanted cord of low vibrational sexual energy.
First of all you need to get yourself into a space to heal. You need to get away from all distractions such as driving, cooking, cleaning, and really get into your meditative space. There are many high beings available to help. Arch Angel Michael with his flaming sword of death, Manjushri’s sword that cuts through illusion, and Rama’s sword of destruction will work. You will want to invoke them, with their swords and see them cut through the cords that bind to your sacral chakra from whomever has corded into you. Ask them to remove the tethers that have been imbedded, as the tethers can reform the cord. Next you need to heal your chakra where the tethers came out, and any scarring that occurred. Mother Mary, Gaia, Shakti and Pavarti are wonderful for healing the wounds of unwanted, either during or afterwards, sexual cords and tethers. Do not forget to cut the cords, remove the tethers and heal the scars in the micro sacral chakra that is in the heart centre. This is how you can free yourself from energy given that is not the high vibrational energy that we all need, want and deserve.